The Uplifting Message You Need For Spring 2023, Based On Your Birth Month

January

“It is the hardest thing you will ever have to do, and it will also be the most important: stop giving your love to those who aren’t ready to love you.

Stop having hard conversations with people who don’t want to change. Stop showing up for people who are indifferent about your presence. Stop prioritizing people who make you an option. Stop loving people who aren’t ready to love you.” — Brianna Wiest, This Is How You Heal

February

“Understand: you are one of a kind. Your character traits are a kind of chemical mix that will never be repeated in history. There are ideas unique to you, a specific rhythm and perspective that are your strengths, not your weaknesses. You must not be afraid of your uniqueness and you must care less and less what people think of you.” — Robert Greene, The 50th Law

March

“Sometimes, your love will not be returned to you for whatever earthly reason, but that doesn’t mean it is any less valuable, it only means something or someone far, far greater deserves that love from you. You must never forget that you can always redirect all the love inside your heart back towards you.” — Charis Ed, All The Love You Carry

April

“The greatest act of self-love is to no longer accept a life you are unhappy with. It is to be able to state the problem plainly and in a straightforward manner.” — Brianna Wiest, The Mountain Is You

May

“Don’t ever be embarrassed about the love you give. Don’t ever be ashamed of saying too much, for feeling too deeply, for being the one that cares more. There is no braver endeavor than giving affection. There is no stronger pursuit than showing passion.” —Déjà Rae, Come Home to Yourself

June

“You’re not always going to feel this weak. Your strength is coming. Everything you need is coming. What you are looking for is coming.” — Jacqueline Whitney, Stay Until Tomorrow

July

“You will not always feel like you don’t belong. There is a place in this world for you and there is a place in this life for you. No matter how much you feel like you shouldn’t be here, you should. No matter how much you feel like you will never be wanted, you will. You won’t feel lost and displaced forever. You will find the friends who are meant to bring you happiness. You will find the people who will love you the way you deserve. You will find love in yourself that is greater and brighter than anything you could have dreamed of. You will find the simple pleasures that remind you how good it feels to be here. And you will find the great big joys that make you feel alive. You are not here by accident. You belong here and I promise, you will find your place.” — Parm K.C., You Will Feel Whole Again

August

“Other people are not here to love us in the exact way we think they should they are here to set up a healing ceremony at which we learn how to love ourselves.” — Brianna Wiest, Ceremony

September

“You are in no rush to figure out your own soul. It’s never too late to start over, it’s never too late to change your mind, it’s never too late to redirect yourself, to replace the dreams you thought you wanted for the ones that genuinely excite and challenge you.” — Bianca Sparacino, A Gentle Reminder

October

“What if there is a path for you that is greater than what you can envision? What if there is a life for you that is more than you would even know to ask for? What if you are inherently and unknowingly limited by your old perspectives, your outdated ideas of what is possible? What if all the discomfort within your being is simply trying to redirect you to a place beyond anything you’ve considered before? What if there is more than you know? What if there are things out there so good, you don’t even know you’re waiting for them? — Brianna Wiest, Ceremony

November

“The love you have been searching for, you already carry inside your heart. How long will you wait before you demand what you deserve? How long will you wait before you ask for what is best? How long will you wait before you truly live? What does it take for you to begin?” — Charis Ed, All The Love You Carry

December

My love, good things don’t always last forever. And that’s okay. They’re not supposed to. More and more good things are flowing your way. More people, more love, more experiences, more opportunities. But if you keep holding on to the past, you will not have space for your future. —Déjà Rae, Come Home to Yourself