The Type of Guy You Should Avoid, Based On Your Birth Month
Relationship experts often say that the wrong partner can quietly shape your confidence, emotional health, and even the way you see yourself over time. While attraction can feel exciting and intense, psychology shows that compatibility is often less about chemistry and more about how safe, supported, and valued you feel in a relationship.
Some people bring out the best in us, while others slowly make us shrink ourselves to keep the peace. Curious about the type of guy your personality should stay far away from? Keep reading to discover the relationship red flag your birth month should avoid at all costs.
April
Stay away from the guy who insists (outright or subtly) that you adjust yourself and fold yourself into his life, instead of being of the mindset that you can have two, separate, fulfilling lives and still be in a strong relationship together.
May
Stay away from the guy who causes you constant pain and insecurity instead of causing you joy. You need to be with a man who only makes you feel more confident and loved than you already do, instead of being with a man who makes you feel jealous, inadequate, and self-conscious.
June
Stay away from the guy who wants you to mold yourself into his idea of the perfect girlfriend instead of accepting you for all sides of you – the fun, exciting one, and the vulnerable, anxious one, and everything in between.
July
Stay away from the guy who sees your heart as something he can take for granted, instead of seeing your big heart as the most incredible thing about you and the reason that he wants to spend the rest of his life loving you and taking care of you.
August
Stay away from the guy who doesn’t encourage your growth – the guy who’s intimidated by and afraid of your creativity and motivation, instead of being inspired by you and proud of you.
September
Stay away from the guy who wants you to swallow your anxieties and worries instead of dealing with them – the guy who’s so unsteady and scared himself that he doesn’t feel capable of being in a relationship in which the two of you tackle one another’s struggles like the team that you should be.
October
Stay away from the guy who is only comfortable being with you if you make yourself smaller for him – the guy who can’t handle your charisma, your magnetism, and your charm, and instead wants you to shrink every aspect of who you are in order to make him feel comfortable and important.
November
Stay away from the guy who cannot handle your drive and ambition – the guy who is afraid of how high you want to go instead of being ready to hold your hand and cheer you on every step of the way.
December
Stay away from the guy who only wants you when things are happy and easy – the guy who easily falls in love with your positive, optimistic, free-spirit side but doesn’t know how to be there for you when things are hard and when you can’t be as bright and as light as usual.
January
Stay away from the guy who never makes you laugh and never makes you take a breath of relief – the guy who only adds seriousness and somberness to your life instead of bringing you a much-needed dose of silliness, relaxation, and joy.
February
Stay away from the guy who doesn’t make your heart feel safe – the guy who makes it even more difficult than usual for you to open up, instead of being the guy who you trust so much that you’re willing to risk your heart a little bit more every day.
March
Stay away from the guy who never challenges you to go a little bit further or to challenge yourself a little bit more – the guy who’s happy to keep things the way they are forever and to never take any risks, because he’d rather be safe and secure instead of experiencing any adventure whatsoever.