19 Red Flags From Men On Dating Apps
âAnything that insinuates youâre too good to be on [insert dating site here]. If you were really too good for Tinder, you wouldnât be on Tinder.â â airfrommylungs
âFor pictures: When all of your Tinder pictures are with other girls or poor attempts to crop your ex out. â cutthroatblondebitch
âWhen they message you out of nowhere and the first thing they say is sexual. I legitimately had a guy message me, âI want to shoot in your mouthâ as a first message. Never saw or heard from the guy before and THATâS how he thinks it would be appropriate to start a conversation. I mean really.â â Miss_Mollyarty
âIâm a nice guy. I donât understand why women donât like nice guys. Ditto about guys claiming they are intelligent and then saying women donât like intelligent guys.â â barbequelighter
âAnything along the lines of âjust tired of gamesâ or âlooking for someone who is real.â You sound like a whiny person who has some serious baggage.â â [deleted]
âHearing about their ex/ bad breakup. Or âif I read your profile and like what I see, I may reply to your message.â Chill out there Narcissist Ned.â â RNtUGlad
âA lot of party pictures where the person looks constantly drunk is an instant no.â â yaradahl
âPutting a quote in their bio about how most women are crazy and how heâs looking for a woman who isnât crazy.â â chickenandnuggies
âIâm probably more awesome than you. A friend wanted to know why he was never getting girls. This was on his page. I told him if I saw this Iâd see it as a major red flag and indication of negging to come.â â handstandmonkey
âBad grammar. And saying you like to party as if thatâs your favorite hobby.â â evilene_sorcha
âA list of emojis Iâm supposed to decipher that explain who you are.â â pieceofgrass
âBlank profiles. Profiles that make it clear you are deeply full of yourself. Ones with shirtless mirror photos.â â eriee
âReally any list of people you donât want to date. It just makes you look like an asshole⌠Just filter out who you donât want.â â cmc
âClaiming to be looking for someone who isnât shallow or superficial, then listing all the physical traits you have to have (e..g, must have at least C cup breasts). My biggest beef with this one is not listing a physical trait that you desire/donât desire; itâs the hypocrisy of expecting others to overlook your shortcomings while refusing to overlook theirs.â â [deleted]
âWhen they find the need to mention weed/420 in their profile. I donât give a shit if you smoke, but if you find the need to mention it in your profile like itâs some part of your identity, itâs probably too important in your life for me to really dig.â â hahaeh
âFluent in sarcasm. I think this oneâs unisex. Translation: Iâm not funny, but Iâve convinced myself that the reason nobody laughs at my jokes is that theyâre just too intellectual and edgy for a mainstream audience.â â Tawny_Frogmouth
âI just want someone who can hold an intelligent conversation. Every single guy Iâve come across that says this usually means, I want to talk about things Iâm interested in and nothing else.â â K8eCastle
âWhen they write something prematurely passive aggressive like .. â6â 2â ⌠because apparently itâs such a big deal.â Deal Breaker.â â Janelloshots
âAny large rants. Particularly those about people not responding to their messages, pleading for people to give them a chance/theyâre a nice guy/you women are so superficial/tired of all the FAKENESS type crap. Also any fully capitalized sentences. No thank you.â â royallyred