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4 Zodiacs Who Struggle To Express Themselves In Love

AQUARIUS

Aquarius is nice to literally everyone, so they struggle with finding a way to let the person they care deeply for understand the romantic nature of their feelings. They’d prefer to find a way to ease into things, giving this person hints, clues, or breadcrumbs to set the stage before blurting out those three words you can’t just take back if the feelings aren’t reciprocated. Aquarius wants a safety net. No matter how much rejection they may face in their professional or philanthropic endeavors, it never get easier for them in the realm of the heart. Because they have such friendly demeanors, they have to find a way to blatantly but elegantly declare their intentions. As difficult as it may be, they are fully equipped to perfect the delivery.

PISCES

The trouble with Pisces is that they’ve already imagined the proposal, the wedding, the kids, and even retiring to the family lake home before they’ve ever made it clear they are flirting with someone. How do you tone down feelings to small talk and innocent coquetry when you’ve planned a life with someone in your head? Their penchant for imagination over action means they can easily get ahead of themselves, and the reality of the relationship. But just because they may precipitate the traditional courting protocol doesn’t mean they’re misinformed. Pisces has an infallible sense of intuition. It’s all about how they craft that feeling into words that don’t scare the other party away. Luckily, when they do manage to distill the sentiment, the message is well received.

LEO

Leo doesn’t know how to put themselves out there. They’ve become deconditioned in the face of a long line of suitors that never seems to end. When everyone is queued around the block for a chance to win your heart, you never have to be the first to open up. Even on the impossibly rare occasion someone doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, there are at least a dozen people on the back burner you can turn your attention to. It’s only when Leo cuts that bench of players loose that they can fully engage in a one on one interaction with the person of interest. When there is no safety net and the stakes are real, Leo can finally find the words to secure their own happiness.

CANCER

Cancer doesn’t think they deserve someone else’s attention or affection. They act like it’s too much to ask of someone. So they choke back all of the feelings bubbling up inside of them and try to keep things platonic. They just can’t go as deep as is necessary to take that risk and hope someone will catch them on the way down, or at least fall alongside them. Only when Cancer is able to validate their own feelings will they be able to ask for what it is they truly want. The relationship, the closeness, the trust, the mutual support. They have so much to offer, it’s only a question of seeing that truth from within to change their stubborn habits.